Sex & Relationships,
Your Way
Therapy for people who live, love and desire their way
My desire is to support and empower you to be more fulfilled, have happier and healthier relationships, and the pleasure you desire – whatever that looks like for you.
Two people meet. They fall in love and live happily ever after. Right..?
But what if your story doesn’t look like that?
What if intimacy has faded, or pain, fear or shame get in the way of sex? What if your desires don’t match your partner’s?
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Are you struggling to communicate with each other? Or feel more like housemates than lovers?
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What if you want more than just one partner, or your erotic desires fall outside of the mainstream?​ ​Diversity in gender, sexuality, eroticism, and relationships isn’t something to be challenged; it’s something to be celebrated.
There’s power, pleasure and connection available when you stop trying to fit into someone else’s story and start writing your own.
Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist
I work with people who don’t fit neatly into prescribed boxes...especially if you’re queer, kinky, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, or simply not fitting the mould.
Traditional expectations might not make sense to you. They demand you to hide parts of who you are, bury your desires, and wear masks to belong. But it’s not because something’s wrong with you, it’s because you’re trying to fit a mould that wasn’t made for you.
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It does mean, though, that sex and relationships can be challenging - and that's where I can help.
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As an inclusive therapist who lives and breathes this work (personally and professionally), I'm here to inspire you to be the colourful, fully-expressed human that you are.
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This is a welcoming space for you to explore intimacy, love, your relationships, and sexual identity and desires, free from judgement.
Some of the challenges I help with
Relationship Struggles
Betrayal, conflict, communication breakdown, family tensions, or simply drifting apart
Loss of Intimacy & Connection
Navigating differences in desire and rekindling sexual connection, at every stage of life
Non-monogamy & its Challenges
Opening relationships, improving communication, working through jealousy, envy or fear
Exploring Kink & BDSM
Making space for curiosity and exploration with desires, fetishes, fantasies and play
Sexual Difficulties
Painful sex, intimacy fears, orgasm concerns, erection/ejaculation problems
Why work with me?
I'm not a stereotypical therapist. I don’t sit quietly with a notebook and nod. ​
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I bring all of me into the work with you — compassion, understanding, lived experience, and a willingness to challenge. I create a safe space to explore, grow and accept what's right for you.
I don’t just know this work from books or training. I've been there myself; shamed, judged, hiding my authenticity to belong and keep the peace, struggling to know and accept who I am.
That said, I work pluralistically because although our challenges may be similar, we're all unique. Your life, your therapy.
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Therapy isn’t about fixing you. It's about unlearning, (re)discovering, reclaiming, and radically accepting who you really are - not just to get by, but to thrive.
“Working with Di was a profound turning point in our relationship. We came to her during a very tender and challenging time, not long after having our baby and we were really struggling. Di held us with skilled, compassionate and steady presence. She created a space where we could truly hear and understand one another and helped us rebuild trust and connection from the ground up.
Now, almost a year after finishing our work with her, we’re in the best place we’ve ever been. Our love continues to grow deeper and stronger. We genuinely don’t believe we would have come through it so well without her guidance. We’re deeply grateful for her support, which has not only strengthened our relationship but rippled out into our whole family.”
K&T